Is there anything better than a steamy session under the shower? Just maybe don’t get so carried away that you slip. Today we’re exploring how to make those moments even more special — here are seven tips to make shower sex easier, sexier and more fun.
Tips for sex in the shower
In films it all looks smooth as butter, but in reality shower sex can be a bit awkward. You might not have much room to move, the floor gets slippery quickly, and if you’re not careful the water gets too hot. Accidents happen in tight corners, so always take it easy. With these handy tips you’ll have the shower experience of your dreams.
Tip #1. Set an intimate mood
To get into the mood for shower sex, it helps to create the right atmosphere. The bedroom can be lovely and dark, but in the bathroom that’s not very practical. Find the main light too harsh? Try a scented candle or pop a few tea lights in the bathroom. You’ll still be able to see what you’re doing — and avoid any nasty slips.
Tip! If your bathroom light is too bright, try a scented candle or a few tea lights instead.
You could also put on some music, scatter rose petals or light some incense. That’s a properly romantic way to surprise your partner. Chances are your effort will be very well rewarded under the shower.
Tidy up beforehand
Another big mood-setter is hygiene. Make sure the shower is clean and put any clutter away. You don’t want unnecessary distractions, and the extra space is a bonus. A smelly drain or a clump of hair isn’t exactly a turn-on. A patch of mould definitely isn’t.
Tip #2. Foreplay in the shower
Take your time
Better foreplay almost always leads to better sex, and the shower opens up a whole new range of options for warming each other up. Tease your partner by stepping under the shower first and making them wait. Watching you undress and seeing you naked is already a serious turn-on.
“Watching you undress and seeing you naked, in the shower or anywhere else, is already a serious turn-on.”
Let them stand back while you start lathering up. Once the tension’s nicely built, invite them in. Then they can give you a sensual massage. Take your time exploring each other’s bodies and slowly work your way to each other’s most intimate spots. By then you’ll both be more than ready for the main event.
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Play with the showerhead
Got a detachable showerhead? If your partner controls the spray and temperature, you’ve got a great little toy to tease them with. You can soap each other up, stroke and massage at the same time. Stand close behind your partner so you can kiss their neck. Hand the showerhead over so they have both hands free to play with you too.
“Hand them the showerhead and you’ve got a fun little toy to tease them with.”
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Tip #3. Oral sex in the shower
Before things get serious, going down on each other in the shower can feel amazing. You’re both freshly clean, and the running water adds a lovely, slippery new sensation. Angle the showerhead towards the wall a bit so you can sit comfortably without water in your eyes.
If you have a built-in shower seat, a stool or a footrest, make the most of it. You can rest one leg on it so your partner can reach you more easily.
Tip #4. The right positions for shower sex
Switching positions in the shower isn’t always as smooth as in bed. Keep the vibe going (and avoid mishaps) by sticking to one or two positions. Not every position is safe under the shower, and the floor can be slippery, so don’t rush anything.
Standing doggy
This upright position is a lot like doggy style, just standing instead of on hands and knees. Easily one of the best positions for shower sex. The receiving partner bends their knees slightly and keeps their feet apart for balance. The other partner can hold their hips for extra stability.
The standing candle
If you’re roughly the same height, you can also have shower sex standing up without too much acrobatics. Have your partner lean their back against the shower wall. With that bit of support, you can lift one of their legs slightly. This way you can keep eye contact while you go for it. There’s also a lovely element of trust here, since you’re the one holding them up.
Tip #5. Bring a sex toy
Want to make things extra special? There are plenty of toys made for shower sex. Soap your partner up with a vibrating sponge, lock them up with waterproof handcuffs and try a quick role play, or simply bring along your trusty waterproof vibrator for some extra pleasure.
Tip #6. Lube for shower sex
You’d think all that water would make things wetter down there. The opposite is actually true. The vagina’s natural lubrication mostly gets washed away by running water. If things start to feel dry, reach for a silicone-based lube. It doesn’t rinse off with water and lasts for ages, so you can enjoy the whole session.
Tip! Just don’t drop any lube on the floor. A few drops can turn the shower into an ice rink.
Tip #7. Handy bathroom accessories
Want a more stable footing? Consider a non-slip mat for your shower. That way you can really go for it without slipping. A footrest makes some positions easier — handy if there’s a height difference between you. For comfort, you can also pop a couple of flannels under your knees or any other body parts that need some cushioning.
Tip! With a non-slip mat in place you’ll always have firm footing during your shower sex.
Got your own tip for sex in the shower? Let us know in the comments below.