The hottest lesbian sex positions

The 7 Hottest Lesbian Sex Positions You Need to Know

Looking for sex position inspiration for women-loving-women couples? We’ve got you. In this blog we’ve rounded up the seven hottest lesbian sex positions. Which one are you trying tonight?

1. Facesitting

“In your face” takes on a whole new meaning with this position! While your partner lies on her back, you place your knees beside her shoulders. Tease her by letting your bottom brush gently over her nipples. Move your hips forward so she can reach your clitoris. You’re in full control here, since you can move your vulva up, down, forward or back.

“Move your hips forward so she can reach your clitoris.”

Your partner has her hands free to massage your bottom. After a while it might get tiring — you can lean forward and prop yourself up on your hands to take the weight off.

2. Doggystyle

Doggystyle is for everyone! For lesbian sex it can be incredibly hot too. It’s perhaps a touch less intimate, but undeniably sexy. Your partner gets on her hands and knees while you take position behind her.

You’ve now got a few options. You can stroke her clitoris and vulva by reaching round the front or behind. You also have plenty of room to play with her bottom and anus. And it’s the perfect position to penetrate her with a strapless strap-on or a regular strap-on dildo.

“You can stroke her clitoris and vulva by reaching round the front or behind. You’ve also got room to play with her bottom and anus.”

3. The Lotus

A classic lesbian position! Sit facing each other with legs wide. This way you have a perfect view of one another. You can build excitement by playing with yourselves first. Then slide closer and place one leg over each other’s leg. Have your partner lean a little to one side while you lean the opposite way.

“Build excitement by playing with yourselves first. Then slide closer and place one leg over each other’s leg.”

Move your hips so your vulvas rub against each other. A little water-based lube can help everything glide smoothly. This position also works brilliantly with a double dildo. While you both use the toy together, you can use one hand to massage your clitoris.

4. Spooning

This position is super romantic! Have your partner lie on her side and lie down behind her. You can finger her, kiss her neck, or penetrate her with a strap-on. You can also massage her breasts and nipples beautifully in this pose.

To reach her clitoris more easily, she can spread her legs. She can finger you back by reaching her hand behind her. Spooning is also lovely for using a clitoral vibrator!

5. The Pisces

A list of lesbian positions wouldn’t be complete without the Pisces! This position makes oral sex so much easier. Have your partner lie on her back and slide a few cushions under her bottom. This lifts her hips. With her legs spread wide, her vulva is beautifully exposed.

This position has the bonus that you can reach everything easily — and your neck won’t ache as quickly! It’s also brilliant for G-spot stimulation. Slide two fingers inside her while you lick her, and massage her G-spot at the same time, or use a G-spot vibrator!

6. The Lapdance

You can do this position on the bed, the sofa or a chair. So you’re not tied to the bedroom. Sit on top of your partner and wrap your legs around her hips. It’s a deeply intimate position where you can look each other in the eyes.

Kiss and stroke each other until you’re ready for the next level. She can lick your breasts and nipples while you stroke her clitoris. In return, she can massage and penetrate your vulva with her fingers. For an extra sensation, she can reach round behind to stroke your bottom.

“She can also massage and penetrate your vulva with her fingers.”

7. Rimming Doggy / Double Duty

This position is similar to Doggystyle and is great for oral. Have her get on her hands and knees on the bed. Kneel behind her and let your tongue glide over her clitoris and vulva. If she’s into it, you can move on to her anus. The combination will drive her wild!

While you rim, you can slide a vibrator or dildo inside her, or stroke her clitoris with your hand. For your own pleasure, you can rub your clitoris against her lower leg — so you both get to enjoy the moment.

Want to use a sex toy during lesbian sex?

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Which lesbian sex positions are your favourites? Got more to add to the list?