Sex in the car can be a brilliant way to add some extra passion to your sex life. Already christened every room in the house? The car is a fun alternative for variety. The limited space makes some favourite positions tricky, but with a bit of creativity, you’ll get a long way. Here are our best tips. Always make sure you’re parked safely off the road and somewhere private — never while driving.
On the back seat
Probably the most well-known spot for car sex: the back seat. Make plenty of room by shifting any clutter to the boot. It also helps to push the front seats as far forward as possible to give yourselves more space. You can go for the Missionary, of course, but Lazy Spoon also works easily on the back seat.
Position for the back seat
If you’re the kind of person who puts comfort above all else when it comes to car sex, there’s no better position than the Lazy Spoon (back-seat spooning). It’s a wonderfully intimate posture for a steamy car-sex session.
- Do: Pick the right music. Don’t ruin the mood with the wrong tracks.
- Don’t: Get too enthusiastic, or you’ll end up on the floor of the car.
- Toy: Try a butt plug (or one each!) for delicious anal sensations.
Oral sex
Oral is probably the first thing that comes to mind when you think of car sex. Whatever car you’ve got, oral is always a good option. Important note: never give your partner oral while driving. The last thing you want is to cause an accident. Park up safely off the road or somewhere private, and then let yourselves go.
Position for oral sex
Oral is the easiest to do and works almost anywhere in the car. You can both stay in your seats — just lean over to reach. No acrobatics required!
- Do: Oral is two-way. Take turns spoiling each other.
- Don’t: Avoid leather seats — they squeak in the most off-putting way.
- Toy: Flavoured lube makes oral sex deliciously sweet.
The passenger seat
Another great spot for car sex is the passenger seat. The giving partner sits in the seat, and the receiving partner can sit either facing them or with their back to them. Make it extra comfortable by pushing the seat all the way back.
Position for the passenger seat
Space is always the biggest challenge during car sex, so the Cowgirl is one of the most comfortable choices. Perfect for roomier cars and a brilliant starting position for your first time tackling car sex.
- Do: Push the seat back as far as it goes.
- Don’t: Don’t go for a two-seater — it gets uncomfortable fast.
- Toy: Place a bullet vibrator between your bodies for extra arousal.
On the bonnet
Need a break after a long drive? Find a quiet, private spot and make the most of the bonnet. There’s lots of variation possible here — leaning, sitting or lying. The bonnet is also brilliant for oral sex.
Position for the bonnet
A car has the perfect natural shape for Doggy Style, and there are several ways your trusty four-wheeler can help. We recommend doing it on the bonnet.
- Do: Park somewhere genuinely private so no one can stumble across you.
- Don’t: Avoid a car with squeaky suspension. It’ll get loud (in the wrong way).
- Toy: Wear crotchless tights and a skirt to make access easy.
Have you ever had sex in the car? What’s your favourite position?