Why is anal sex more popular than ever? Anal isn’t just thrilling and pleasurable — it can also be good for your relationship and sexual wellbeing. Want to know more? Here are the many benefits of anal play.
It’s a sensitive topic
Anal sex is still taboo. Among heterosexual men in particular, it’s often associated with homosexuality. But if you think anal is only for gay people, you’re way off.
Anal play is increasingly popular among men and women, from cautious fingering to pegging. Not so strange when you think about how supremely sensitive the anus is to sexual arousal. Why wouldn’t you make use of that?
Anal = normal. So we say: bye-bye taboo!
People often think anal is dirty or dangerous, but just like vaginal sex, it doesn’t have to be. Hygiene and safety are in your own hands; you just need the right approach.
5 amazing benefits of anal
“What makes anal so special?” We’ve thoroughly analysed the question for you:
1. Increased sexual pleasure
It’s true: anal stimulation can feel wonderful. As with other forms of sex, endorphins are released. They’re known to relieve pain and give you that lovely feel-good sensation.
That’s because the anus is a powerful erogenous zone — a part of the body that’s especially sensitive to sexual stimulation. Countless nerve endings come together here, and that’s a major source of pleasure.
The pleasure of the P-spot
Ever heard of the “male G-spot”?
The prostate, also called the P-spot, is a spot in men that’s even more sensitive than the anus. You can reach it through anal penetration or prostate massage.
Did you know… stimulation of the P-spot can even lead to a multiple orgasm?
The pleasure of the G-spot
Did you know that anal penetration can put indirect pressure on the vaginal wall, the G-spot and the A-spot? That can make it especially pleasurable for women too.
2. More excitement and variety
Benefit number two: anal stimulation can be exciting because it’s new and unusual. “Breaking the rules” feels adventurous and naughty.
The taboo around anal sex only makes that feeling stronger. So one upside there.
Experimenting can add a huge amount to your sex life. You can break the routine, have exciting new experiences, and bring more variety to the bedroom.
Dominance & surrender
For some people, anal sex is about more than just physical pleasure — it’s also about the mental play around it. Handing over control, or taking the reins yourself, gives anal sex a soft BDSM element of dominance and submission.
Anal positions
If you’re open to anal sex, you can perform many sex positions a little differently. Think for example of the cowgirl variation Cowboy, for deep anal penetration. Or check out the Rimming Missionary and Rimming Doggy for oral indulgence.
Anal toys
In the world of sex toys, you’ve also got far more options at your disposal — from butt plugs and anal beads to anal vibrators and prostate dildos.
Become an ass-tronaut
The Anal Training Kit is perfect for beginners.
The kit includes a butt plug, a vibrating plug, a string of beaded anal beads, an anal douche, a tube of relaxing lube, and an anal manual. Everything you need to get going.
You could also consider some beginner-friendly anal toys. Just remember: start small, always use anal lube, and mind the hygiene.
3. More trust and intimacy
Is there tension around the idea of anal sex? Sure — and the anus itself is naturally tight too. Safe and pleasurable anal penetration requires the anus to relax, which only happens in a relaxed atmosphere between partners.
Anal sex isn’t just about the physical sensation, but also the connection between partners.
This means the anal sex experience can be even more intimate than vaginal. It requires a deep level of trust and communication. It can even strengthen the emotional bond between partners.
Don’t forget…
The anus doesn’t produce its own lubrication, so you’ll need anal lube for smooth anal penetration. Struggling to relax the anus enough? Anal Relaxing lube has a mild numbing effect.
4. Good for your health
In addition to the pleasures above, there are a few health benefits to anal sex and stimulation:
Improved blood circulation
Anal play can improve blood flow to the pelvic area, which is good for the pelvic-floor muscles.
Did you know the pelvic floor plays a crucial role in your sexual functions? It can even influence the intensity of your orgasm.
A healthy prostate
For men, anal stimulation can help massage the prostate, which can support prostate health and offer relief from prostate issues.
A healthy prostate is essential for urinary function and sexual wellbeing in men.
5. No risk of pregnancy
Finally: anal sex (almost entirely) eliminates the chance of pregnancy, since pregnancy can only happen if sperm enters the vagina and fertilises an egg.
Note: you’re not protected against STIs that way, though. Get tested regularly and use a condom for extra safety.
What’s your take on anal sex? Leave a comment!